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Sittin’ pretty

10 08 2009

So, guess who is sleeping 10+ hours pretty much every night now? Yep, that’s my girl! Guess who is also sitting up? Yep(at four months!!)! She seriously is super baby!! It is too funny that on Friday I put her to sit up and she just did it like she had been doing it forever. I even tried poking her to get her to topple over and she is steady as can be. Well, obviously she falls over sometimes (especially when she laughs, which is the cutest thing EVER!!), but she is such a champ!

So, I am now a firm believer in the sleep regression stuff. I don’t think it is a coincidence that the day she starts sleeping solidly through the night again she also can sit up like nobody’s business. It makes sense, too, because whenever I start a new job or something, it tends to fill up my dreams and affect my sleeping, too.

A sitting baby is so much fun! She loves to reach for her toys and is really REALLY into watching whatever is on TV. She is such a little angel and has really started talking a lot lately. Actually, it is really shrieking, not talking, but it is music to my ears!

You may have noticed that there are lots of holes in my blog. I have decided that I am not going to post pictures here any longer and I have removed all of them from my previous posts. There have been some news stories that have just made me skeptical about putting my girl’s face out there for all to see. I will keep facebook updated, so hit me up there. I may decided to occasionally post a photo or two if something I can’t keep from sharing occurs (’cause she’s too cute to keep all to myself), but even then I will only leave it up for a day or so. I think that is better than going private or moving to a place where I can pswd protect some posts. So there it is. Have a good week!!





Tricky girl…

5 08 2009

So, after I put R down for bed last night I sat there, armed with a plan and ready to put that plan into action. I was actually waiting in anticipation for her to wake up.

Well, guess what? She never did. 10 hours of sleep without a peep.

Silly little girl. Is she trying to confuse me… or are we on our way to regular peaceful slumber?





Four month sleep regression

4 08 2009

So, I cried this morning. Twice. And then again this afternoon. Then I decided I needed to read a book on baby sleep. I looked at this one and this one and this one. And then I cried again and decided not to buy any of them. Then I went back and re-visited a comment that Karen had left on a previous post about the four-month sleep regression. I did a little googling and started to feel a little better. Then I called the new babysitter to check on R and I cried again, only tears of relief. I talked with the sitter for about 20 minutes on sleep, what she is doing and what she recommends I do. My problem isn’t that I am overly tired or that I am frustrated. It is that I KNOW R is tired and not getting enough/good sleep and I don’t know what the best thing to do about it is.

Backing up a little; Since R started rolling over things have been rough between the hours of 11pm and 6am at our house. Sometimes we have 5 hour stretches, sometimes we have two hour stretches and sometimes (Sunday night) we have 10.5 hour stretches. On Sunday, I thought we had a breakthrough… but last night was the worst. She went down at 7:30pm and woke at 10, 11, 1, 3 and 4. She is seemingly very uncomfortable, tired and not hungry when she wakes. She can often be soothed back to sleep, but often doesn’t stay that way long (obviously). So last night at 10pm we let her soothe herself back to sleep (while watching on the video monitor). It only took about 6 minutes. At 11pm, I went and patted her back to sleep (because I was feeling guilty about the 6 minutes of CIO). At 1am Hubbs patted her back to sleep. At 3am I picked her up and rocked her back to sleep. At 4am I brought her to our bed, fed her and let her sleep in the swing the rest of the night. She woke up at 7:30 smiling (as usual. If she weren’t so cute it would piss me off.)

I think we get an A+ for consistency!! HA!

We already do a great job at the nighttime routine. We do the same thing every night and have ZERO trouble getting her to sleep. Getting her to sleep at night is a cakewalk. Getting her to STAY asleep is another story. I can’t let her CIO. I just can’t. It isn’t listening to her cry that bothers me, it is the thinking about what she might be thinking that kills me. I just can’t do it. So, here is the plan….

When she wakes, we are going to wait three to five minutes for her to put herself back to sleep (depending on how hard she is crying). Then, we are going to go try to pat her back to sleep and shush her. That almost always works, it just depends on how long it will last. If we decide we need to feed her (which I KNOW she isn’t hungry, but the food will ensure another 3-4 hour stretch of sleep… which I know I shouldn’t feed her to get her to go back to sleep, which is why we try not to, but SLEEPING is part of being healthy and an extra 4 oz isn’t going to hurt her) we are going to feed her in her crib without taking her out. Obviously if she gets super super upset(which doesn’t happen too often), we will have to pick her up, but we are going to do everything we can to avoid that. I am comfortable with this both in philosophy and execution. For me, it is a comfortable mix of “It is nighttime and you need to sleep,” and “we are here to meet your needs.” For the record, I don’t think we have been “spoiling” her or that she is trying to “manipulate” us or anything. I just think she is waking up uncomfortable and we need to show her that it is still time to sleep and not time to wake up and that we are there for her if she really needs us.

It bugs me that the root of our inconsistency is our own laziness. But man, I am tired! But I think we will better now that we have an actual laid out plan.

A funny sleep note is that R is starting to blow raspberries in her sleep. Too cute!

P.S. I think I love R’s baby sitter.





My crazy weekend

3 08 2009

– I took Friday off to hang with my little sis an extra day before she went home.

– Took R to doc for her four month. She is doing fantastic and the doc said she is developmentally more like a six month old. Oh yeah! Gotta love that mama pride. She weighed 13.5 lbs and is 26.5 inches long. Both 50th percentile.

– My refrigerator broke and we lost all our food. Hubbs went directly to having to spend $1100 on a new one. I called a repair man and they came and fixed it in about three minutes for $225. I had a coupon for 20% off, so rather than an $1100 expense, it was $180. Go K.udzu.com.

– My baby nieces were born on Saturday! yay! Healthy as can be at 5lbs 7oz 18.5 inches and 6lbs 19.5 inches. I would share a photo, but they haven’t sent me one yet. Assholes. 🙂

– Went to the lake this weekend. I didn’t want to go but when I saw the perma-grin on my 13 year-old sister’s face when we put the throttle down, it was so worth it!!

– I tried CIO this weekend with R (against my will) because I know the sitter is going to. First time she was out after 8 minutes of crying. Second time, three minutes. I think she will be ok.

– Took my sis to the airport Sunday. Cried my eyeballs out.

– Last night, R slept 10.5 hours straight in her crib and I had to wake her up!! I hope it wasn’t just a fluke and that we are on to something here (maybe something to do with falling asleep by herself during her naps???).

– Took R to daycare for the first time today. I didn’t cry until I was well on my way to work. The sitter’s three year old looked at R and said, “She has a little head.” It cracked me up so much I forgot to be sad!!! I love kids! My niece and nephew (6 month old twins) also go there, and they have my husband’s family’s giant sized head… so in comparison, she DOES have a small head. Actually, she is only in the 25th percentile for head size, so in comparison to most babies, she has a small head.

– Happy Monday! Boo!





Still here….

28 07 2009

As I come back from my little unintended leave of absence, I wonder if anyone noticed I was gone???

Things have been rather insane lately, in a good way. We have just been so busy with just about everything! Weddings*, trips to the cabin, my baby sister has been in town, working, looking for child care**, watching R grow***, taking editing and printing R’s 3 month photos (coming soon to a post near you).

All in all, things are just wonderful! Last night Hubbs said to me out of the blue while giving R a bath, “This is our baby!!” Yeah, sometimes we still have to pinch ourselves!! I feel like I just repeat myself over and over again, but I cannot express how blessed I feel. I am so thrilled to have a baby, any baby in my life. However, R is the perfect baby for me. She is just the coolest thing ever and I love her more than words can describe.

*the wedding was actually pretty nice. From behind the scenes, it was a total mess and even thought the ceremony started an hour late, I think everything went off without a hitch. R was a big hit (as usual!!) and we had a really nice time in the Northern Arizona forests!! Once I was there, I wasn’t such a grouch about being in the wedding and I actually had a little fun!!

After the wedding there was a little after party in the backwoods (which was weird, but really pretty!). We took both our dog and R with us because we were only staying a short while. Hubbs played his guitar for the crowd and R and I walked hung out and Captain dug in the mud and got incredibly dirty. At one point, a younger woman there with her boyfriend said to me, “You guys just have the perfect little family!! You guys are so cute with your adorable baby and cute as heck puppy! I want to BE you guys!” It made my heart soar to be the envy of someone else. For years and years I have been looking at others longingly to have their family… and now I have that (eventually growing) family! What a compliment! And how right she is! We are so fortunate and fulfilled!!

**On Monday R starts daycare. We met several people, but ultimately decided we are going to try to go to the same place R’s twin cousins go. They live very close (which I like R having little exposure on the roads with all those crazy drivers!!) and my IL’s can help pick her up if we need them to. The lady is nice and my ILs know her well and trust her. My only concern is that she will be able to care for three infants, but after a 1 year-old friend of R’s tried to step on her head, I like the idea of her only being around kids that couldn’t crush her skull. So we are doing a two week trial to see how things go. I have a back up just in case. I am a tad worried about how she is going to do at naptime since my grandma pretty much rocks her to sleep at every nap (even though I asked her not to, but what can you do? Fire the free help?).

***R is doing fantastic! She is growing like a weed and is doing great with her development! Her doc is very impressed!! She had her first solid foods a few weeks back. She was a complete riot!! She didn’t hesitate one bit and jumped right in and innately knew right what to do. Her little trap door just pops right open at the sight of that spoon!! It is the funniest thing! I did miss out on the messy-baby-first-feeding thing, but this was better!!

Night sleeping has suddenly become a challenge for us. I personally thing she just wants to hang out with me now that I am working, but Hubbs swears I am crazy!! I have been more tired the past few weeks than when we first brought her home. It isn’t so bad, but a lot of times I feel like she is terribly uncomfortable. Like she is trying to sleep, but her body is achy and she keeps tossing and turning. Occasionally I give her Tylenol, but I don’t want to over do it, especially since I don’t really know what the deal is. The other night, she tossed and turned and groaned from 2 am until 6 am. I felt so bad for her!! She is sleeping a little longer now that we have established a good nighttime schedule and bedtime. Also, the rice cereal has helped, too. It is like she sleeps great for like 6 or 7 hours, and then can’t get comfy to get back to sleep, which is unusual for her.

She is a total Mamas Girl right now, which is good because i need her to be. Having my grandma at our house has been very stressful and as eternally thankful as I am for her generous help (we literally couldn’t have done it without her), I am ready to move on to the next chapter where I don’t feel like I am entertaining every night. Hubbs is a little jealous of the Mamas girl thing, but he always says that he gets it, I am pretty easy to love. LOVE that man!

She goes for her four month appointment on Wednesday (can you believe she is four months old!?!? Cripes, time flies!!).

My baby sister is here!!! We are having a lot of fun, despite the fact that I have to work. We went to the cabin last weekend and this weekend we are actually going to take a trip to the lake!! I am also taking Friday off work to just hang out with her and R. What should we do????She is getting to spend a lot of time with R and really bond with her, which is cool because her twin nieces should be born any day now and she is going to live with them and have plenty of time to bond with them.

More soon! I promise!





Fabulous Fourth!

7 07 2009

Happy Belated Fourth of July!!
My little fourth of july cutie!!
We spent the weekend at my grandmas new cabin up north! It was awesome! From the small town blow-out parade to watching fireworks on the roof, it was every bit the family fourth celebration I have always wanted!!

R was such a little trooper and even started giggling this weekend!! It is the greatest noise ever made!